Cautionary Tales: How To Destroy Your Date with a Foreign Woman

A foreign woman is different from your typical local woman. You have to start fresh and widen your scope in terms of cultures and values. As we all know, dating can be tough. Every time you go on a date, you’re faced with many rules as to what and what not to do. Some men tried and tried but kept setting up bad dates.

So, how do you overcome the obstacles of achieving a successful date?

In many cases, being yourself and relaxing during a date will help you decide whether the relationship could be a good fit. First dates can be very nerve-wracking.

Here's some dating advice that’ll guarantee you success in wooing a foreign woman:

1. Bringing a friend.

When setting up romantic dates, don’t bring a friend. It is a special one-on-one time with your lady, so you have to value it.

Bringing a friend will only give her the idea that you’re not into the date and have already secured a Plan B if ever your date doesn’t go smoothly, or if you expected it not to go smoothly.

2. Picking an inappropriate venue.

Going out on a date means having a good time. However, instead of going to a restaurant, just like foreign ladies expect on a first date, you go clubbing.

Imagine how your lady would feel if she’s not dressed up for the occasion, unless you’ve given her advance notice on where the venue is for your date. Preferably, think of a relaxed, inexpensive, and non-committal setting for your date.

3. Talking in monologue.

One important rule of international dating is the exchanging of information about each other. If you keep talking about yourself nonstop, surely, your lady will lose interest, and this can mean no second date.

This is a sure-fire method to ruin a date. Don’t be selfish and give your lady a chance to talk. Research more on what to ask a foreign girl on first dates and widen your field of communication. A conversation is a two-way process and it's all about getting to know each other so you can decide whether there’s a basis for a potential relationship.

4. Oversharing.

Advertisements and promotions are everywhere. Many topics shouldn’t be talked about on a first date. Foreign women don’t like men who talk too much about themselves. Save some for later dates.

Giving your lady the benefit of the doubt can help strengthen your relationship as it progresses. The unknown plays a vital key later on in the development of your imperfections and flaws. Remember, first dates should be fun, they’re not free therapy.

5. Being late.

The universal rule for dating foreign ladies is to arrive earlier than the expected meetup time. Show some initiative and be assertive. Make your lady feel special by doing so and show your excitement towards the date.

Remember, you don’t have the history or connection with your lady to be forgiven for an occasional late date. She went out with all her efforts and is taking a risk. Don’t make her have any second thoughts before you’re even in the room.

6. Alcohol problems.

When dining, there are always drinks for the occasion. Control your alcohol intake. But most importantly, DON’T GET HER DRUNK.

Don’t give her the idea that you’re taking advantage of her. Nobody likes an extreme alcoholic and you've just barely met her, so you certainly wouldn’t want to hold her hair back as she vomits, would you?

7. Using your phone.

Set your priorities straight and keep unnecessary things away, like your phone. Nothing makes another person feel unimportant faster than being on your phone, texting, or tweeting while on a date.

Focus all your attention on her and show some respect for your date. Put your phone on silent and engage in a deeper and meaningful conversation with your lady.

8. Pretending to be someone you’re not.

We all embellish the truth from time to time, but it’s not a good idea to get carried away with distorting reality on a first date. This usually happens when you want to show off to your lady.

Make sure to keep it in check because this will backfire in one of two ways: she will either find you bragging a huge turn off, or she will find the truth out later on and leave you biting the dust.

9. Lingering attachments to your past relationship.

We all have our past, and that’s especially true for your future foreign girlfriend. You will only make your lady jealous and at the same time uncomfortable when you introduce a phantom person.

Stick with the present and let go of all attachments. The point of setting up a date and meeting new people is to start fresh. Focus on the date and your plans for moving forward.

10. Trying to seal the deal.

This is a date, not a glorified prostitution. Putting pressure will let your lady come to her own conclusions. Don’t even think about forcing her to promise to call or commit to another date.

It will only make her feel scared and uncomfortable, and this can mean no second date. It doesn't matter if you’ve paid for dinner and drinks all night, just because you had dinner together doesn’t mean you’ll get your lady for dessert.

Friendly Tips

There are a lot of first date tips on how to make a good and lasting impression on a foreign woman. Be resilient and persevere on how to achieve a great first date. Do the opposite of all the things mentioned above and you’ll be on your way to becoming a dating expert.

Some Western men don’t know how to date a foreign girl, and blogs like this can help make them aware of what and what not to do. We can’t blame them, we all have different upbringings, and taking the first step to learning is the greatest achievement they can give themselves.

Be mindful of your actions and carefully plan your next move. If you are ready to meet a beautiful foreign woman, you can sign up here and join our singles vacation tours.